Nothing is more important than our health. As busy moms, we put so much time and effort into ensuring that our kids are healthy – and part of that is in nurturing and educating them, ensuring they have a good balance of learning, socializing, stimulation, and downtime.

Many of us in Singapore are fortunate to have helpers in the household as part of our family unit, for whom we are also responsible – for their healthcare, safety and wellbeing.

More and more, we understand that in keeping healthy, preventative methods are key: Exercise, keeping stress levels down, and of course, eating well. As employers, we can encourage our helpers to be healthier by educating them; and by facilitating them so that they can do so with minimum effort –  by supporting some kind of daily exercise, giving them time to rest and unwind, and providing access to nutritious food.

Along with Terri-Anne Leske of Carrotsticks & Cravings¹, I host workshops to teach helpers about nutrition fundamentals, and how to easily make tasty, healthy meals. Our aim is to not only teach helpers how to cook Deliciously Healthy² meals for the families that they work for, but also to inspire them to take better care of themselves. They learn how to read nutrition labels so that they understand the levels of sugar, fats, and salt in foods; about the better cooking oils to use; and of course, what makes up a healthy plate – including portion sizes.

Recently I bumped into Lindsay Fipp, who had sent her helper, Emilie, on our three workshops (Health Kids, Healthy Family Meals, and Healthy Entertaining)³. Emilie has been working as a helper in Singapore for eight years, and joined Lindsay’s family just over a year ago.

Lindsay informed me how Emilie was advising her about better choices they could make at home, and how Emilie was showing her three young boys how to calculate the number of teaspoons of sugar in various foods. Emilie also changed her own diet, which she believes has cured her of persistent leg pains and migraines, and cleared up her skin. She is so enthusiastic about nutrition that she sends healthy foods items back to family in the Philippines, and tells them of changes they can make to their diet – e.g. reducing their cola intake, eating less white rice, and using less cooking oil.

I spent some time last week in Lindsay’s home to chat with her and Emilie about the changes they had made, how the whole household sees the benefits, and what we can do (both helpers and employers) to ensure we are all eating better in our efforts to become healthier.

Here Is A Transcript Of Some Of The Highlights Of The Interview:

Why did you decide to come to the series of workshops?

Emilie – I wanted to learn more about the foods I can provide, especially more nutritious ones.

Lindsay – Emilie is a great cook; she came to us knowing how to make her own pizza dough and her own sauce. I was surprised she had never been on a cooking course, but since she loved cooking I thought it would be a great opportunity for her. But I hadn’t found the right fit, as she didn’t need basic instructions. Both of the things she made today (Grilled Corn & Avocado Salad with Salmon, and Black Bean Brownies – both from Terri-Anne’s new book Family Favourites) she has never made before; she likes to try new things. So when I heard about your course I thought it would be the perfect opportunity for her to learn not only new recipes, but also about healthy eating.

What are the main things you learned when you came to the workshops?

Emilie – I learned about the unhealthy content in some foods, and how every time you buy food you have to look at the contents – especially for fats, carbohydrates, and sugar. I learned that if we take too much sugar, it can lead to diabetes and to some cancers. Especially refined sugar, we don’t need that.

You eat fairly healthy Emilie, but how do you feel about the diets of your friends?

Emilie – They eat any way (they want), but I say to them that they shouldn’t drink cola, which I now know has 14 teaspoons of sugar!

Lindsay – Emilie went around the whole kitchen saying things like ‘this has 30 teaspoons of sugar, and this has so many..’ so when you explained that 4 grams of sugar is one teaspoon, it was really eye-opening. Emilie shares this with my children to show them that this has so much sugar.

How have things changed since taking the workshops?

Lindsay – We’re a partnership, in that Emilie has all this information and I do my best to read up on things as well, but a lot of it is now confirmed. Also, she has come home with some new information that I didn’t know; and so now we use healthier oils, or instead of frying we bake, and there’s a lot of ways to avoid packaged foods.

Have you any advice for other employers?

Lindsay – I think we are so lucky with Emilie, as she is interested in cooking and in trying new things. I can only imagine,  if I were living in someone else’s house with people who eat completely different kinds of food that it might be hard; but Emilie really likes the food that she cooks. It makes us feel happy that she’s eating what she cooks and not just eating packaged noodles, which are simply not healthy. It’s just not nice, and I don’t like to have separate food and separate dinners, and having to shop for separate things. We all eat the same diet and that teaches the kids that this is the kind of food we have in our house, and this is the kind of food everyone in our home eats, because it’s important to be healthy.

If my kids saw Emilie eating in a different way, that would send a mixed message to them, and they see that it’s important for all of us to eat healthy food.

Since the workshops, Emilie is more able to adapt to things in the kitchen, and knows what things are interchangeable if we don’t have exactly all the right ingredients; she’s more comfortable with other ingredients that can be used, and rather than me having to run out and get others – oils that can be interchanged, different spices and herbs – she’s taking more initiative in just seeing what we have and then making it work, which is really wonderful from my perspective.

Any advice to any other helpers Emilie?

Emilie – If you have a chance,  ask your boss to go on this course, because this is really good for you, for your health and your employer’s health, and family, and even for your family back home.

Why do you think some helpers struggle to change their diet?

Emilie – I think they have to learn more. I really learned a lot of things that I can share with my friends, especially those who just eat anything.

Liza – Well, even here in Singapore, it’s amazing that we’re not taught nutrition basics in school; it’s surprising what many employers don’t understand let alone their helpers.

What are the main things you would tell your friends about how to change their diet?

Emilie – I tell them that they shouldn’t drink coke or soft drinks as they have a lot of sugars. I ask them to drink lemon water with some mint. I share with them that they can also give their employers the ideas. To motivate them, they must learn more. Before, I always had leg pains, especially when I got up in the morning; I had migraines and would feel weak. Changes started happening when I came here (to Lindsay’s home) and especially when I came on the course. Now I am so energetic. I think using the better oils help – like coconut, olive oil, and avocado oil. You have to have a more balanced diet – some meat for protein, carbohydrates, vitamins and minerals.

For me, these courses are also to help educate helpers, and to present it in such a way that we understand your diet, and that we understand other options. It’s wonderful that you can eat the same foods here (in this household) but for some helpers that might be a challenge. Perhaps eating with the family is not an option for them – so do you have any suggestions how we can help them in this area?

Emilie– Some helpers really like noodles and white rice, so maybe they can change to brown rice – get nutrients from foods like legumes and beans. Instead of drinking milk, they could try almond milk.

Lindsay – One thing that Emilie mentioned to me a while ago is that when employers give their helpers a separate food budget to buy their own food, it’s not just about budgeting what they buy, it’s about them feeling tired to cook an extra meal. Sometimes when you’re just exhausted, it’s the ease of the packaged noodles. If you’ve already prepared the meal for the family and you have to prepare a second meal for yourself – to cook and clean up after a second meal – Emilie was saying that sometimes it’s just easier for helpers to boil the water.

There may be ways to modify the meal – perhaps if there’s an option to make this meal (Grilled Corn & Avocado Salad with Salmon) for the family, and then take a piece of the salmon and eat that with rice, and some chili, or sauce, that’s more to their liking. To have to create a whole separate meal is a lot of work, whereas if you’re able to take some of the meal that the family is going to eat, and take part of that – the protein element and some of the vegetables and make that into something more to her taste.

Yes, it can certainly be made part of meal planning, and again there’s a healthier version of everything be that rice or noodles. Of course, helpers have to enjoy their food, so no point in eating something they don’t like, but meals can be modified, so it’s meeting somewhere in the middle. One thing for sure is that helpers can’t continue to drink colas and eat white rice, because we see how high type 2 diabetes is both here and in the Philippines. So, employers can definitely take more responsibility; then as employers we feel better, and it’s a happier and healthier household. 

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